More than a Woman (To You)

So... A guy wrote about "10 ways to know your Indonesian girlfriend is cheating on you". Unsurprisingly the tone was definitely negative and consist about girls that he found in bars or discotheque. Like... Umm... D'oh...!!!

I can't express how absurd I think the man is, with his statement that these "girlfriends" are semi prostitute that make money off their bule/expatriate boyfriends, a blatant complain about the girls, ah, occupation when he clearly takes advantage of it, prowling in bars etc. Indonesia is well known as a conservative country, but even in a more liberal country one hardly find the so-called wife/husband material there. You'd meet people in alcohol-induced state, for him/her or yourself to be able to speak coherently under alcohol influence is such an enourmous achievement.  

It hurts, it really hurts to read how low this man and some of the commentator thinks about Indonesian women, when all they see are women in shady places. It's like going to a red light district and cursing the hooker while humping them. You're not a saint, dude. And how they say about Indonesian women who are only useful to fuck with, where is the sense of equality and humanity? Where the westerners march for equality for LGBT and even animals right, it is clear that the evolution was not wholesome and some still left behind in their cave-age mentality. And please, they also have this kind of women in western society. Those who drink a lot and fuck a lot, the man-eater and sugar-daddy chaser, why put it so negatively with Indonesian women?

To be fair, I don't think these men will be able to get a good decent women, birds of a flock stick together and these men (to me) are some really ugly stuff. It is hard to imagine a good decent loving woman would want a man who have "adventures" and loud and proud about it. My family raised hell when I hang out with a night club DJ even though we only went to dinners, and I'm not even little miss perfect. And to think this man wants to find a devoted loyal little wife at bars and night clubs? Poor, poor, poor and pitiful delusional man...

Indonesian women, if you are reading this, get your act together and kick ass darlings. Show these a** what we are made of, a much better quality than their poor broke narrow minded ass. But if you rejoice in being treated like second-class citizen just for a measley amount of money well... Can you just please stop advertising yourself as Indonesian? Stop smearing our name, love. 

Read the guy's nauseating writing at:

http://www.jakarta100bars.com/2010/04/10-signs-indonesian-girl-cheating.html